Once upon a time, I was a theatre major. This was during the era in my life that my parents referred to as, "Heather making decisions that will not earn her a lucrative career." As I took more art and theatre classes, and their hair grew grayer and, in the case of my dad, more sparse, I actually learned a ton of skills that have become invaluable to me in my day to day life. As a theatre major, one of the elective courses I took was "Improvisational Acting."
This class was amazing, and I saw funnier stuff come out of my classmates than I saw the rest of the time we were at college. For the first month of the class, the teacher, Kate, let people pretty much go where the moment took them. Inevitably, it always lead to liberal use of the F-word,sex or drugs or sex AND drugs while saying the F-word.
Was it funny? Sometimes. We were in our early 20's, after all.
After the first month, Kate made the rule that we couldn't go there anymore. Her justification was that it was, "too easy," for a laugh, and it wasn't really taking a lot of thought. We could go anywhere else, but we couldn't go to sex and drugs, and we started to limit the casual mega swears.
It got a heck of a lot funnier after that.
See, when you make the joke or get the laugh with bad language, sex, and drugs, what you're getting is the reactionary laugh. Your joke is cotton candy. It might taste good in the moment, but a few seconds later, it's gone and no one really remembers why it was so funny. Real comedy, long lasting laughter that sticks with you, comes from a much deeper connection with your audience. It comes from reaching them in a place that's way beyond the surface reaction. This humor is the emotional meal of meat and potatoes that keeps you full for a long time.
Heather is a consultant, speaker, and trainer in the Seattle area with BTLD Consulting. Check out more of her property management ideas at www.behindtheleasingdesk.com !