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Jul 19
2011

The Power of a Simple Action

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Posted by: Lori Snider

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While waiting for my plane on Southwest the other day, a general ruckus caused me to look up from my work, and take note of a situation unfolding right in front of me. The ruckus was coming from a woman in a wheelchair who was clearly in distress. From her tone, it was obvious she was in one of those situations where you get so mad you cry. I can empathize with that, as I have been there.
Anyway, why she was mad, (something about the wheelchair attendant not letting her stop to eat something), was not the issue. She was just mad. A supervisor had approached and was talking to her, with little success - she just yelled louder about how upset she was between sobs, and what he did next reaffirmed everything I have been teaching about the power of body language in conveying meaning - he simply knelt down on one knee, looked her in the eye and lightly touched her arm. She immediately calmed down, stopped yelling and started listening. He promised he would take care of her, and the situation, and as she was wheeled away, she reached in his direction as if to touch him, and said, “Thank you.”
Just a friendly reminder...it’s not what you say, it’s what you convey. He cared, and she knew it. Empathy goes a long way toward making a wrong a right. Actions truly do speak louder than words. You choose.


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written by Tara Furiani, July 19, 2011
What a great example of just taking a moment and then responding. He could have (as sadly, a lot of people would) gotten defensive and started yelling back.

It's amazing how something so small, could diffuse what sounds like, a big situation.

Thanks for sharing this touching story Lori!

Tara
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written by Lori Snider, July 19, 2011
You are very welcome, Tara.
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written by Kelly M Finucan, July 26, 2011
Thank you for writing this brief story. I will use this as an opener to my leasing meeting with my staff. I do believe empathy will make you or break you. Your story is a great people skill teaching tool!
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written by Lori Snider, July 26, 2011
Thank you Kelly. Mostly, when the heart is in the right place, all else will follow.
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written by Argelia, July 26, 2011
EMPATHY! a simple word that could make a big difference. Thanks so much for sharing your story smilies/wink.gif
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