I’m not one for New Year’s resolutions.  Somewhere around March those resolutions have been kicked to the curb and barely thought about for the remaining 9 months.  So, this year, I’ve elected to forego them and create a plan I can actually stick to.

Here’s my list of 5 four letter words, no, not those four letter words.  While not necessarily work-related, these words are simple reminders of what I can do to be better me and have an awesome 2016.

1. HELP – “How can I help you?”  “What can I do to help?” “Hey, can you help me?”  This action word is so powerful as it’s both an offer and a request.  I will make myself more available to others, lend my talents and gifts wherever needed and be more open to ask for assistance – the latter of which has been most difficult for me.

2. CALL – In an earlier blog post, I mentioned a friend who consistently called others for nothing more than just to say hello.  Emails and social media posts are great but nothing is better than hearing a warm voice and sharing a laugh or two.  I will personally connect and laugh more in 2016.

3. HOLD – Becoming a better version of myself this year begins with imagining what that actually looks like.  Hoping to create a positive outcome for the year, I am creating a vision board to bring about clarity and maintain my focus when things start to go off track.  I will silence the pessimistic voice in my head, keep my attention on my intentions and hold on to this year's promise to affect positive change.

4. ZEST – It’s the “joie de vivre”; the exuberant enjoyment of life.  I am going to surround myself with cheerful people and immerse myself in experiences that rejuvenate my passion for living.  Meet ups with friends and colleagues, taking advantage of mini-vacations throughout the year and maybe trying a new restaurant once a month can sustain the good vibrations throughout the year.

5. DARE – Let’s face it, during any given year, we experience many ups and downs.  The down times can be crushing to ones self-esteem.  One of my favorite quotes is by H.L. Hunt and it goes, “Decide what you want.  Decide what you are willing to sacrifice for it.  Establish a plan and go to work.”  Well, these 5 words are my plan and I dare any obstacle to get in my way. 

What four letter words are going to kick start your 2016?