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Who saw the leader in you before you saw it yourself?

Who saw the leader in you before you saw it yourself?

Let's be honest for a second.

The titles look great on a business card. πŸ’Ό
The awards are nice on a shelf. πŸ†
The spotlight feels good while it lasts. ✨

But none of that travels with you.

What stays? The people who invested in you when they did not have to. The ones who pulled you aside, spoke truth into you, and refused to let you settle. 🌱

When I sit back and think about my own journey, two women immediately come to mind. And I wonder, do you have people like this in your story too? πŸ’­

Let me tell you about Kathy. πŸ’ΌπŸŒŸ

I was a part time teller fresh into the banking world. Green. Unsure of myself. Still figuring out which way was up.

Kathy was my first manager, and honestly, she could have just let me blend into the background. Plenty of managers would have.

Instead, she saw something. πŸ‘€

She promoted me to Personal Banker before I felt ready. She gave me feedback that stung a little going down, but only because she refused to let me stay average.

"You're capable of more."

And then she showed me what that looked like.

That kind of honesty changes you. πŸ”₯

Years later, when I thought I had things figured out, along came Leah. βœ¨πŸ¦„

Leah stepped in during a season when I was navigating affordable housing compliance, LTIC paperwork, LURA requirements, the kind of complex details that can make your head spin. πŸ“š

She did not hand me a manual and walk away.

She sat with me.
Explained things more than once.
Answered the questions I was embarrassed to ask.

That patience. That investment. That willingness to slow down and teach, it reshaped how I approach this business entirely. 🀝

Here is what I have come to understand.

πŸ’‘ Leadership is not a title. It is a transfer.

The best leaders I have seen do not collect followers. They grow other leaders. They see potential in people who have not proven anything yet. They give time to people who may never be able to pay them back. 🌱

And the research backs it up.

πŸ“Š Employees with mentors are twice as likely to be engaged at work, and organizations that prioritize development consistently see stronger retention and higher profitability.

Beyond the data, there is something deeper.

When someone invests in you, it changes how you show up. At work. In hard moments. In how you lead the next person behind you. ✨

So here is what I am wondering today, and I would genuinely love to hear from you. πŸ‘‡

Who was that person for you? 🌟

Maybe it was a manager who gave you a shot when no one else would.
Maybe it was a mentor who answered your late night questions anyway.
Maybe it was a teacher, coach, family member, or colleague who refused to let you quit on yourself.

Drop their name in the comments. Tag them if you can. Let us fill this thread with people who deserve to be recognized. 🌸🫢

Now your turn. Who invested in you? Let's give them their flowers. πŸŒ·πŸ‘‡

 

 

Comments 1

Guest - Yoana Huckabee on Tuesday, 24 March 2026 06:51

Thank you so much for this article!

When I started in the industry:
Carol Estrada
Jennifer Walker Norris
Maria Rosales

Where I am today:
Lisa McLemore β™₯️
Debbie Palmire Wiatrek β™₯️
Sean Griffin β™₯️

Thank you so much for this article! When I started in the industry: Carol Estrada Jennifer Walker Norris Maria Rosales Where I am today: Lisa McLemore β™₯️ Debbie Palmire Wiatrek β™₯️ Sean Griffin β™₯️
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