I didn't have a budget or access to bills before the property I manage was purchased by an IRO. The Owner chose to live On Site during rennovations and was able to train me to manage a budget, negotiate with contractors, deal with hiring and firing and manage more effectivley to turn the property into an asset. Wht you are dealing with is a "slumlord". an Owner and or PMC who expects you to do their jobs with out giving you the tools. You're blindfolded at this time, and seeing how long you've been attempting to do this, you have two courses of action - One, to Leave and wash your hands of it or Two, take this Drive and Determination I see and put it to use. Age should not matter, it's Experience that really matters in this industry. If your Owner/PMC is not concerned with helping you do thier jobs, then it's time to move on. You Really need to have a plan laid out before you talk to them, and if they reject it, discuss other options. When you come to a loggerhead and cannot push through communication, it's time to go; move on.